From Colin's work
In the late 90s I was living in Vancouver, and I met a couple from a small town in BC who had never been to Vancouver. When I visited their town, their perspective on Vancouver was that it was full of murderers and all kinds of debauchery. They asked me, "How can you even live there? It's such a cesspit."
Their whole perspective on Vancouver was built from mainstream media.
I was at a work event, and I got into the elevator with a woman I knew really well. I thought I was being a gentleman, so I invited her to press her floor button first. She did, and she was fine.
When I saw her later, she said, "Hey Colin, that's not the context to be a gentleman, just so you know." She said, "Well, it's nice when men are gentlemen, but women can perceive risk differently."
Never in my 48 years had I considered that being a risk, because of my experience as a man.
