From Colin's work
I was once on an executive team where everybody in the room was leading a team of about 60 people. At our quarterly meeting, one of the leaders told the whole group that his main priorities were at risk. He'd had key people leave, and he didn't have time to hire before a date that could not move. He was super stressed.
We got back from a break, and another department head spoke to him in front of the whole team. He said, "I'm going to lend you people this quarter. And I want all of you to know that I'm gonna take a hit for this. My team is going to feel like I'm not protecting them."
He went on, "I'll handle that. I'm committed. There's no like passive aggressive disagree and commit. I'm 100% committed to giving you these resources because our business needs you to succeed more than my team this quarter. So I'll take the hit."
It was emotional. The leader who had raised the risk saw his peer hadn't had to do that. His peer had just saved his bacon, and the peer was going to take the pain for it without holding a grudge.
